After my Grandfather was
killed in the Great War my Granny tried to get money from the Parish.
This was an early form of DHSS. The applicant would go before a board
made up of local members of the community. These were mostly made up of
people such as doctor’s and church minister’s wives.
They were very judgmental of anyone who needed financial
help. I remember my Granny telling me what a degrading thing this was,
when all you wanted was a little money to feed your family.
You had to stand in front of very grand ladies (at least
they would have appeared grand to her) dressed in very fine clothes and
big hats - people who would never have the threat of losing the roof over
their heads. They told her that she could take it washing even though,
at this time, few people could afford to pay for this service. They looked
down on poor widows, who had lost their husbands in the service of the
King.
My Granny did not get any money from the Parish. No
one could afford to pay for anyone else to do their washing. My Granny
got a job working in the local munitions factory to support her family.
My mother told me that she, her brother and her sister would be put to
bed early so that their clothes could be washed and dried for school the
next day. My mother remembers her shoes had hardly any soles on them but
they had to be polished. My Granny’s saying always was that soap and water
were not dear (expensive) .Granny got a job in the munitions factory to
try to support herself and her three children.
My uncle was apparently very clever at school and the
headmaster came to my Granny and asked her if she would allow him to go
to Allan Glen School My Granny said she could not afford the books. Allan
Glens was a fee-paying school at that time my Uncle would have had his
fees paid, as he would get a bursary. My Granny would not have been able
to afford the uniform.
My uncle left school as soon as he was able to and became
a miner as his father had been. My Granny went on to marry again, another
miner and went on to have 4 more children. She cleaned and scrubbed Wellshot
School until she was 70.
She remained in the same house with a black sink, no
hot water and an outside toilet that was shared by 3 families. My Granny
died at 85 years of age never having been in a hospital in her life.
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